Job:42:7-9
Comfort if not delivered in the right way; it becomes a burden. The very people who came to comfort Job; because they communicated inaccurate things fell face flat in their expectations.
Their idea of suffering was unhidden sin. And that Job needs to find out what this punishment is due to and repent. In fact their words of encouragement became a burden for Job, it frustrated him. But they insisted that he was arrogant and non repentant.
If you are not sure - at least keep quiet. Your presence alone us sometimes the only thing that is required. You being there is often enough. You need not drag them out of discouragement. Thereby causing more harm. Instead just be there. Allow them to come out of it on their own.
I admit Lord I have failed in being there for others when they needed. I have not been a listener. But I have tried to be a professional problem solver. Only to bruise them and hurt them more. Often delaying the process of recovery. Forgive me Lord.
Lord help me to be a channel of rescue. Very often to keep my mouth shut and just be there. And allow the Holy Spirit to heal.
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