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Correction


Eccl:7:5
It is better to heed a wise man's rebuke
Than to listen to the song of the fools. 

It is often hard to take correction. We often keep a distance from people who criticize. 
I am not talking about people who always want to find fault. These are genuine people who wants the better of you. People who genuinely love you. Who finds something not right in you and points it out. 
The moment our wrongdoing is exposed - we get restless, we justify, we defend and ultimately we resist and avoid. 
But we enjoy the songs of the fools. We love the company of those who always appreciate. We say words of appreciation is our love language, in want of acknowledgement. We love their company, because they never criticize. 
But genuine love wants you to correct; especially if there is God in the relation. Genuine love has the freedom to tell you that you are wrong. Genuine love has the wisdom to show you the option to rectify where as superficial love pats you on your shoulder always. 
Yes I agree, a genuine friend will appreciate you. But he will also be there to boldly say that you are wrong too. Be with such wise people. Be with people who have that freedom. And who will give you that freedom. 

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