Kind

Gen:50:14-21

Joseph's brothers never understood him. They did not understand the gem that he is - neither when they were young, nor when they were in Egypt. Even after their father died, they are fearful that Joseph would repay his grudge over them and they send him a message, threw themselves down before Joseph. Seeing their misconception about him, Joseph broke down and wept. 

May be there is no one who understands you; you have been misunderstood all day long; may be because of your naivety and innocence; may be you are that irritating guy in the gang; though you never intended it all. In secrets of your bed, may be seeing all  these you might have broken down and wept. 

May you respond the way Joseph responded. V:21b. So he reassured them by speaking kindly to them. 

Matt:7:12 So in everything, do to others what you would have them to do to you. 

Be kind to them when they persecute you. 

It's difficult to counter cruelty with kindness. But be kind

Its difficult to be kind to people who cornered you, ridiculed you. But be kind. 

Jesus was kind to the very ones who was cruel to Him who even killed Him. Father forgive them, for they know not what they are doing.