Husband and wife

Unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit.

1 Pet:3:4

Though this is told to the wives; it is a very good admonition for all of us. To have a gentle and quiet spirit, is an incomparable unfading inner beauty. The real beauty is not your outwardly appearance. Real beauty is your inner spirit - to be gentle and quiet. Not to be quarrelsome. Not to be picking fights. But to be a peacmaker. especially in your family.

V:1. Wives, in the same way, be submissive to your husbands.

In which same way? The example is of Jesus. 2:23. When they hurled their insults at Him, He did not retaliate, when He suffered He made no threats.

In this same way, wives be submissive to your husbands, no matter how well or bad they treat you.

V:7. Husbands in the same way, be considerate, as you live with your wives.

In which same way? The example is again of Jesus.

3:7. Treat them with respect as the weaker partner and as heirs with you of the gracious gift of life.

Like Jesus did to us. Knowing we couldn't pull it through, He was considerate and compassionate to us. He did it for us. In this same way.

Only then your prayers would be unhindered (v:7).

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Mathews Philip16 September 2026 at 14:42
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