I am Mr. Nice

Fearing people is a dangerous trap

Pro:29:25

A man whose priority in life is to please others, is a havoc. When he tries to please one set of people, he will displease the other set. And he will be running around like in a trap.

Because the standards you set for yourself is based on the inconsistency of the man around. You tend to compromise. You tend to dwindle.

But if you are focussed on living a life that you desire to fear God and please Him, then life is more organised and orderly because there is only one standard.

Easier, said than done. Because you are more inclined to live for people who are more tangible than the God whom you do not see.

Lord open my eyes so that i will be able to see you every moment and live for you.

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