Just love her

Husbands love your wives.

Col:3:19

Is it that difficult. You are asked to just love.

In fact it is much simpler than submitting and obeying.

You don't create love. You feel love. You have loved her before. Passionately, selflessly. You found time for her. You cared for her. Where is your first love?

You don't love her when all is well alone. When life is difficult. that is when you love. Whe she is indecisive, that is when you love. When she is confused, that is when you love.

Do not be harsh with them (v:19).

Be considerate (1Pet:3:7).

Treat them with respect (1Pet:3:7). They are the weaker partner. You are strong - mentally, emotionally, physically, spiritually. You are the one to support. You are the one who cares. You are the one who provides.

But heirs with you of the gracious gift - equal with you but weaker.

So that nothing will hinder your prayers (1Pet:3:7b)

Love her - emotionally, spiritually, mentally, in every aspect.

Lord, fill me with your endless love. If I don't love the one I see, how do I claim to love the God I do not see. Love your neighbour as yourself.

Love is yet, not a feeling alone. Love is a choice.

Through thick or thin. Whether she is thick or thin;

Whether she is beautiful now as she was the first time you saw her walk down the aisle. Whether she is a home maker or a busy enterpreneur.

Love is the only core, you are asked to do Mr

Husband.

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